The world of Tzu Chi May 2021 (Vol.134)

TZU CHI 134 45 problems in the second half of 2020. At one point, his peritoneal dialysis catheter became dislocated, requiring him to switch back to haemodialysis using a central venous catheter. All this meant Sai Sai had to suffer more pain than normal, and it required multiple surgeries to fix the dislocation problem. One day I received a phone call from a UNHCR physician telling me that Sai Sai’s condition had deteriorated to such an extent that he could no longer receive haemodialysis. He could not go back to peritoneal dialysis either because the multiple surgeries had resulted in abdominal adhesions. He and Sai Sai’s doctor both agreed that switching the boy to palliative care would be best. U Sai Tun told us Sai Sai wanted to donate to a nursing home. We knew what the family’s financial situation was like, so we decided to help out. We arranged a trip to a nursing home and made Sai Sai’s wish come true. We also accompanied him to a shopping mall, a memorable trip full of joy and laughter. A warm smile lit up his face, and his eyes twinkled. In response to the small gift we gave him during the trip, he said quietly to me in my arms: “Happy!” Sai Sai has taught us how to cope with illness with ease. We have also learned from him the spirit of kindness and how one should never delay in doing good. He accepts what has happened to him with a broad mind and a tranquillity borne from the influence of Buddhism. His wise father has likewise been able to accompany his child with peace through the last stage of his journey on Earth due to his strong religious faith. It is a blessing getting to know the family. Sai Sai in the arms of the author, Teoh Bee Ling. [Photo by Cecelia Ong]