The world of Tzu Chi April 2020 (Vol.121)

33 TZU CHI 121 old daughter Jhee Min for the demands of a competitive academic environment and building character. She and her husband take a hands-on approach to parenting and prioritize quality time with Jhee Min, often involving their daughter in recycling work besides exposing her to the wonders of nature and reading picture books with her. The couple are aware that children learn best by observing their parents’ behaviour, reminding themselves to exercise due vigilance over their speech and actions. As a teacher and mother, Boon Sy is surrounded by children all day long; her profession revolves around interacting with preschoolers and she returns home to her daughter in the evening. She turns to the Jing Si aphorism “Be mindful, not worried or perturbed” to motivate and remind herself to practise mindfulness and patience in fulfilling both her roles. On the other hand, the Jing Si aphorism “It is better to speak less, and best to speak kindly” resonated with Jhee Min the most. “This Jing Si aphorism serves as a reminder to myself to be more cautious of my words. Sometimes, I would speak rashly to my mother or even talk back against her. But now, I rarely do so as it would break my mother’s heart. I hope to be able to communicate better with her.” The wisdom contained within the Jing Si aphorisms has guided Boon Sy and her family in navigating the journey of life. Profound yet relatable, these brief statements convey messages of compassion and positivity, providing consolation for all and illuminating the way forward for those seeking solace. Da Ai Kindergartens across Malaysia have incorporated Jing Si aphorisms into the curriculum. Teacher Ng Boon Sy (foreground, left) acknowledges the positive impact of the aphorisms on her students. [Photograph by Sam Pin Fook] Wise Words for a Good Life Three Decades of Jing Si Aphorisms