The world of Tzu Chi (Vol.109)
TZU CHI 109 17 performkind deeds and cultivate positive thoughts. He said, “I am thankful to Tzu Chi for giving me the chance to make up for missed opportunities. The volunteers’ guidance and positive spirit have given me a different perspective on life, making me realize that achieving happiness in life is as easy as simply reaching out to help others.” Fui Cheaw, who had been caring for Kim Peow for a considerable length of time, observed that after Kim Peow noticed that an excess had accumulated from the subsidized diaper supplies, he requested to reduce the quantity supplied and suggested that the saved expenses be converted into donations for the needy instead. Volunteer Suit Kong acknowledged that Kim Peow’s attitude has changed for the better, having developed a sense of empathy and a willingness to be considerate of others. Kim Peow was used to living the high life, yet he was never satisfied with his fortunes. But now, he is contented with even a minimal sum in his possession, as he feels spiritually enriched. His previous preoccupation with material gains saw him turning green with envy whenever his friends turned up in luxury cars, but his current concern is to invite them to join him in contributing to charitable causes. “Some of my friends are still reluctant to accept my way of life, but I hope to gradually influence them with my conviction,” he asserted. A tender gesture of love As the 2019 Lunar New Year was approaching, Kim Peow agreed to loan out his residence as the venue for the New Year gathering and distribution event organized by the volunteers in his community for care recipients from 13 households. On the eve of the event, the volunteers carried out a thorough spring cleaning session at Kim Peow’s house, which was cluttered with junk. Out of courtesy, the volunteers sought the permission of Kim Peow’s wife when handling the items. “Do you still need these, Mrs Yoh?” “If you don’t need these anymore, may we send them to the recycling centre?” The volunteers took care to seek clearance for every item from Kim Peow’s wife before deciding the next course. This occasion marked the first time the volunteers had any interaction with Kim Peow’s wife after caring for Kim Peow for nearly a year. They were pleased to note that Kim Chin Fui Cheaw , volunteer During my initial encounter with Kim Peow, I noticed that his speech was slurred due to complications from the stroke he suffered, so I had to be very patient when listening to him speak. Patience is a crucial virtue to have when interacting with our care recipients, because they need a listening ear to confide their troubles to. Kim Peow’s family was observing us closely from the sidelines as they had reservations towards us, so being sincere in all we do for him is very important. After nearly a year of caring for him, his family started to accept us, especially his wife, who would greet us warmly. I learnt that patience, compassion and sincerity are essential in dealing with our care recipients. Serve from the Heart Ever eady to
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